Monday, January 17, 2011

Welcoming Eric!!!

Brian and I didn't spend New Years Eve at any parties this year.  We didn't watch fireworks, play games, go out to dinner, or any other traditional ways you ring in the new year.   We welcomed 2011 in the best way possible, but snuggling our hours old son.

Eric Brian was born at 5:09 PM on December 31, 2010. 


Biding my time waiting for the pitocin to take effect.

Minutes old

 Visits from grandparents (all except my mother who was behind a camera the whole time.)




Three generations

Proud Daddy

And mommy is in heaven



Our pride and joy




**Birth Story
On Christmas morning, I could tell things had started to happen.  I couldn't stand or walk for more than a couple minutes without getting contractions.  As much as I expected to go into full blown labor soon, my contractions stayed irregular and unpainful throught the whole weekend and into the next week.   Finally my weekly appointment rolled around on Wedensday.  This was the first one since the 9 week appointment that Brian was able to come to with me.  I suspect that he had a feeling it would be a big appointment, and it was.  After talking to the doctor he let us know that he could schedule an elective induction if we wanted.  Wahoo, the baby was coming. 

We scheduled the induction for Friday the 31st, New Years Eve :)  I know it seems like we were aiming for a baby New Year or the tax deduction, but our decision was actually based on Brian having time off work starting that day.  My entire labor experiance was as lovely as labor can be.  We showed up at the hospital and my sweet nurse, Heidi, was ready and waiting to show me to my room.  I got all settled in for a long wait.  Then the resident dr. stopped by to okay my induction plan, my dr, stopped by a bit later to chat with me, and Heidi started the iv after an unsuccesful attempt to find a vein in my right arm and then blowing out the first iv attempt in my left arm. 

Then the waiting game began.  Brian watched college bowl games to pass the time while I did crossword puzzles and slept.    My wonderful anesthisiologist gave me the epidural before I really needed it.  He was even very careful to not show me the needle or tell me what he was doing.  Finally, just after 4, I let the nurse know that I felt like pushing.   After 20 minutes of pushing (which is hard work even with an epidural), Eric was born at 5:09 PM.    Brian was by my side through the whole process and his support and smiles kept me going. 

Some of my favorite memories from Eric's birth:
Hearing Eric cry for the first time ~ Brian cutting the umbilical cord ~ When they put Eric on my chest he lifted his head and just looked at me ~ Our first family prayer ~ Watching Brian change his first diaper and give his first bath ~ Being able to calm my baby just by holding him ~ Waking up with Eric in my arms and realizing that it was all real :)

19 comments:

Tony and Ann said...

What a wonderful experience, and what a cute baby!

Gina said...

I feel so emotional seeing you with such a beautiful baby boy in your arms. I know it seems so silly because I only "know" you through our blogs but it seems to me you have wanted this baby for a very long time. So much of your blog has given me a glimpse into your family being a big extended unit that celebrates together. I know that they will be so happy to have little Eric arrive safe and healthy. I wish you all the love and luck in the world and I look forward to seeing many more photos over the coming months.
Gina
P.S. You look amazing for a woman who has just given birth!

Seth and Julie said...

Congratulations! He is perfect and I am so happy for you.

Julie L said...

So I'm reading this and crying. It is always a momentous thing to have a new little spirit come into our lives, but knowing how long you've waited for Eric makes it even more poignant, it seems. He is so precious. I love that picture of proud Brian with him in his arms. He's a lucky little guy! Thank you for being willing to make the sacrifices you're both making to bring him into all our lives.

Emily said...

Wow! I thought my induction and delivery was nice but yours was so nice!

Congratulations Tonya! He really is beautiful!

Breanna said...

Congratulations!! He is an absolute doll!

Bobby Sue said...

I know how long you have waited for this little spirit and he seems to be just what you have waited for! Enjoy every minute! Little boys will steal your heart. I have both and there is still something so special about a little boy. Love you Tonya and am so happy for you.

Linnley Marie said...

We are SO excited for you and Brian. Eric is so cute! A great way to end 2010 and start 2011 as a Mom! How wonderful!! We miss you guys in the ward.

Laurita Nielsen said...

Congratulations Tonya and Brian!!!
What a wonderful birth story, keep the posts coming!

Brad and Hailey said...

Yay!!! What a great story! We are so happy for you guys!!!

Stephanie • My Orange Chair said...

Hooray! Eric is absolutely perfect! I'm glad everything went so well. Congratulations to the proud parents. We miss you, but are so happy for you!

Joni said...

I teared up a little reading this. He was worth the wait. I told Bob about a month ago how you and Brian were becoming great parents already...So glad he's here and that you're willing to let Avery and I hold him as much as we want.

Sarah E. said...

Congratulations! He is adorable! I am so happy for you. Little boys are so fun!

Nichole Gaertner said...

:) Tonya- what a perfect little person to add to the family. He's beautiful and simply amazing. I'm so happy for you and Brian. I hope your heart if full. <3

Suzanne Earl said...

He's beautiful! and you look fantastic -- an acomplishment all it's own after having a baby. Congrats!!

Unknown said...

Wondered about all these details...so fun to read the birthing story. Hope to see you Sunday at family dinner. Should be fun right?

Han and Kyle said...

Congratulation! It is so sad that you guys moved so we didn't get to see Eric in person, so it's so great to see him on your blog. Thank you for sharing your birthing story. I'm glad that it was a pleasant experience.

Christina Olson said...

Congrats!!! He is sooo adorable and you look great Tonya for have just given birth. I am incredibly excited for you!

Bonnie said...

Congratulations! You all look so happy:)